Etiketter
ASD, AST, Autismspektrumtillstånd, Dryck, Kroppsspråk, Sociala koder, Socialt samspel
En sak börjar jag bli väldigt trött på. Hur kan man döma någon innan man lärt känna denne? Om man får ett mindre positivt intryck på grund av kroppsspråk är det helt obegripligt för mig. Då jag har en diagnos som gör att jag lyssnar på vad någon säger och inte går så mycket på kroppsspråket gör det helt obegripligt för mig hur man kan få ut så mycket information av kroppsspråket. Synd att vissa dömer efter det. Jag gillar inte ögonkontakt, vilket folk kanske tolkar som ointresse eller likande. Jag blir trött på andra förstår saker som jag inte greppar – i det sociala samspelet – och hur de ska utnyttja att jag inte förstår.
Jag vet inte riktigt hur jag kom in på ovanstående. Det var inte riktigt där jag hade tankarna nyss. Just nu dricker jag varmt vatten med citron och agave sirap. Det är galet gott. Lite otippat gott. Har du någon varm dryck du gillar förutom te, kaffe, varm choklad?
Yolanda and her creative scream 
theartblogger54 skriver:
Body language can reveal so much about people actually, but you are right, we should not judge only by appearances but that is so often what people do sadly.
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Yolanda - Aspergers syndrome - Poetry - Alternative female - Mental illness skriver:
The thing is that I don’t think that my body language says so much about what I wanna say – mostly.
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coffeenewstom skriver:
Sometimes in winter and when it’s freezing cold: Mulled wine, ”Jagertee” or hot Mjød.
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theartblogger54 skriver:
Listening is a very good attribute or quality to have. Sooooo many people just don’t listen, they like to talk about themselves and hear only what they want to hear! Interestingly, eye contact is very important to me and (unless I know or suspect they someone is or autistic or are genuinely shy or nervous) it will have great bearing on the level of respect and credibility that I have for them. That probably sounds really strange to you I’m sure.
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Yolanda - Aspergers syndrome - Poetry - Alternative female - Mental illness skriver:
Yeah, t’s probably strange to other people …
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kirizar skriver:
Body language does help express things that might be better left unsaid. The eye-roll to convey sarcasm. The shoulder shrug–is so eloquent in saying so many things: ”I don’t know,” or ”You may be right, but I disagree and refuse to argue.” Or, if an eye roll is followed by a shoulder shrug by a teenager, express the almost-adult disgust the one has for the other without saying a single word.
It must be exceedingly frustrating not to ‘hear’ this language with your eyes. Perhaps someday there will be an APP that can translate it for you. Or maybe, time will give you the patience to deal with people who do not know how to speak your language.
People like me, who write an English that may or may not translate well into Swedish. For that, I apologize.
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Yolanda - Aspergers syndrome - Poetry - Alternative female - Mental illness skriver:
Thank you so much for this thoughtful comment (:
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nedhamson skriver:
Orange and cranberry warm.
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newwhitebear skriver:
Serene evening. Body language teaches many things.
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